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How to Actually Feel Connection
When you experience anxiousness, you often feel that you want peace. When you experience depression, you often feel you want to be happy again. When life feels heavy, you ask how to make it stop. But underneath those words is usually something simpler. What you actually want is to feel connected. Connected to someone who sees you. Connected to a sense of meaning. Connected to the present moment. Connected to yourself. Anxiety is often less about danger and more about disconne
Joelle Moray
3 days ago2 min read


I Didn’t Know I Could Do That
A couple of weeks ago, I was working with a group of elementary students in a gym. At one point, I had them skipping backwards down the entire length of the floor. It felt a little silly, a little awkward, and just challenging enough to require their full attention. When they finished, one of the kids looked up at me, genuinely surprised, and said, “I didn’t know I could do that.” It stopped me in my tracks. "I didn't know I could do that." Not because skipping backwards is
Joelle Moray
Jan 202 min read


Why January Makes Slowing Down Feel So Awkward
Why January Makes Slowing Down Feel So Awkward January is the only month where we collectively decide to cosplay as people who wake up at 5 a.m. feeling refreshed. Suddenly everyone has a routine. A plan. A system. There’s a strange pressure to act like December didn’t just happen, like we didn’t just sprint through holidays, family dynamics, year-end deadlines, emotional processing, and the general chaos of being human in public. And yet January arrives and says, “Okay, grea
Joelle Moray
Jan 142 min read


What January is Really For
Pause & Proceed. If you’re reading this in early January, chances are you’ve already been told what this month is for. Reinvention. Discipline. Big declarations about the version of yourself you’re supposed to become. January has a way of arriving with a megaphone when what most of us actually need is a whisper. Winter has never been about acceleration. In nature, this season is for conserving energy, restoring resources, and letting things lie fallow so they can grow later.
Joelle Moray
Jan 81 min read


What Time Is It?
Ah yes, the glorious confusion of the end of Daylight Saving Time. The moment we all agree to pretend an hour just fell out of the sky like a forgotten coupon for rest we’ve been too busy to redeem. The clocks roll back, the sun clocks out early, and suddenly it’s dark by 4:30 p.m., which feels both criminal and somehow like divine permission. This is the one week of the year when society accidentally aligns with your nervous system’s deepest desire: to be home early, in flee
Joelle Moray
Nov 3, 20252 min read


Remember When You Used to Be Fun?
Remember when you used to laugh so hard you couldn’t breathe? When a random Tuesday night turned into a dance party? When you didn’t need...
Joelle Moray
Jun 30, 20252 min read


How to Actually Enjoy Summer
(Even when your calendar feels like a tornado of Google invites and guilt trips) Raise your hand if you’ve ever tried to relax and...
Joelle Moray
Jun 27, 20252 min read


The Permission to Pause: Why High Achievers Struggle to Slow Down
I hear it over and over again from high-performing people and incredibly successful companies: We love what we do. We’re happy here. And...
Joelle Moray
Mar 20, 20254 min read


A Weekend of Transformation: The Beauty of Pressing Pause
Twelve remarkable women stepped away from the relentless pace of their daily lives and into something rare—a weekend devoted entirely to...
Joelle Moray
Mar 17, 20252 min read
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